I’ve never actually eaten a Russian Tea Cake before. I have seen them on cookie platters since my childhood, but I always stayed far, far away from them because they are full of nuts…. which I am highly allergic to.
But, this year when I put a call out to my friends, family and readers on Facebook for them to tell me their favorite Christmas cookie my childhood best friend, Jennie, told me hers was the Russian Tea Cake. Of course, I had to ask Jennie for the recipe, but she didn’t have it! It was her Mom’s recipe!
I love Jennie’s mom, Vicki! That’s Jennie & Vicki about 15 years ago, in the picture above! Vicki is sweet and kind and has always been there for me… just like Jennie. Jennie and Vicki have been in my life since I was little… for as long as I can remember really. Growing up, Jennie and I only went to middle school together but we lived only 3-4 miles away from each other. We saw each other on weekends and vacations and were best friends… as good of friends can be. Growing up with Jennie as my friend was like having a second family. Vicki and Phil, her parents and her brothers Andy and Scott… they were my family too. As we got older and went off to college we tried to keep in touch… but the time between visits got further and further. But, there was no denying that Jennie knew me better than anyone else. Jennie was my best friend.
I have fond memories of spending days at a time at Jennie’s house, sleepovers and lots of giggling. The picture below is us in high school… Jennie came over to do my hair and make up for the Homecoming Dance!
During the holiday’s, her house was filled with the smells of cookies! Vicki baked and baked and baked so many cookies that her entire dining room table would be packed full of plates and containers full of cookies. Russian Tea Cakes included! It’s Vicki’s cookies that I always think back to when I’m making my own Christmas cookies today. I can almost still smell (and taste) the deliciousness that was on Vicki’s table.
PS… Don’t tell her, but I always used to sneak in there and snack on a few peanut butter blossoms!! hehe
Unfortunately, we had a falling out in our 20′s. It was really quite devastating when our lives didn’t mesh together anymore… when our world and life views couldn’t quite find a way to be in harmony. We both had young children and we just couldn’t see eye to eye on parenting, life choices and so many other things. We both said very hurtful things to each other and stopped keeping in touch.
Until my Mom died. My mom passed away in May 2009 and Jennie and Vicki came to the funeral. I remember the day so clearly… the moment when I got my friend back. My Mom’s death brought so much healing to my life and this moment was no exception. As I was standing in the foyer of the church waiting for the funeral to begin and greeting guests, I see out of the corner of my eye the door open and my childhood best friend and second mother walk in. Jennie and Vicki were here. Immediately, I broke in to tears and I just reached out my arms to hug Jennie. We embraced and didn’t let go… we cried and cried. The tears were not only for the loss of my Mom, but for everything between us being put aside and the love we have for each other, for our lives, for our families coming back into the picture. Because really… that love was all that was important in that moment.
That embrace changed everything.
I don’t know if I ever told Jennie how important is was to me that she and her mom were there that day and how much it meant for them to be there… to love me. I needed her love more than ever… and she was there to give it to me.
Our friendship has never gotten back to where it was when we were kids… but it is different. Almost better. We have grown up, put aside our differences and realized that we have a special bond that not everyone has the luxury of being afforded. We have a history… a childhood of love and laughter shared. No one can ever take that away from us and now we see the importance of family and friends. We work on keeping in touch and always know that we hold a special place in our hearts for one another.
It may not be spoken… but there is love between us. Lots of love.
So, for Day 4 of 12 Days of Cookies, I bring you Russian Tea Cakes. These are Jennie’s favorite Christmas cookie and Vicki’s recipe.
I hope these cookies can bring you and your loved ones closer together this holiday season.
Want more cookies?
Check out the main page for the 12 Days of Cookies and you’ll find the links to all the recipes! Next cookie will be posted Monday!